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Because he has to take his glasses off before you do the deed, your image will be a little bit obscured.Whatever little insecurities you have (and we all have them, don't deny it) will fade out of your mind because he isn't visually equipped to see them. If he's sporting his glasses, he doesn't care about public opinion.That's also when my career as a professional virgin came to an end. Mom, dad, the sex-ed teacher - none of them had taught me any of this stuff. People only love us for who you are, not who we pretend to be. To understate things, I was a late bloomer in the realm of romance. This is a serious omission, since our relationships with others are the biggest determinants of happiness in our lives. I know it's fashionable amidst the smart set to be dissatisfied with yourself and to keep striving for more, bigger, best. It was the only time in my life that I got depressed: poor sleep, suppressed appetite, Kafka. The next kiss didn't come for another 4 years, when I was in medical school. Turns out that the skill set required to navigate the tricky waters of romantic interaction wasn't in any book I had read or any class I had taken. As guys, a lot of what we did in physics and math class was to try to straighten crooked stuff out.
If there were a dating bible for the smart man, these would be its commandments: 1. As a teenager, I always wondered, when would it happen for me? Just like water flows downhill and electrons go from high to low potential, there is also an attraction gradient. Like playing the violin or writing code, success in dating and romance is a skill: you get better at it the more you practice.There’s just something so endearing about a man who rocks a pair of glasses. He's never threatening, or imposing — just quirky and adorable.When would some beautiful girl take me by the hand, look deep into my eyes, appreciate all my wonderful quirks and make out with me torridly? But those lugs probably think Hubble is some kind of gum and Perl scripts are oyster recipes!
And most things in life don't follow linear equations - not your breath, not your heartbeat, not your Apple stock, and most certainly not women and romance. Sometimes she'll come to you when you ignore her and leave when you declare your undying love - deal with it. So he's bewildered when the jock/frat boy gets the girl and he does not. A woman will like you based on how you you make her feel.