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I don't think it's a problem, dating is a relative term, it could just mean people are looking for like minded people to go to clubs and parties with.
Not specifically looking for long term relationships.
That's not to say they might not be doing both, but it's less likely than it is for the guys.
I, more often, see single guys who are wanting to swing AND looking for an LTR with a single female.
We don't do a lot of profile searching, so hadn't really noticed the trend, but personally I hope it doesn't catch on.
I guess I said all that to say, it's not a bad thing if they are doing it IN ADDITION to looking elsewhere, but if they are limiting themselves to only looking for a LTR on a swinger site, they are probably screwing themselves out of lots of potential screwing.On one side, I can see why singles might choose to use it to find others who are like-minded.If your goal is to find a mate who is already INTO the lifestyle, then where else would you go. My theory goes as follows: Most women who are active on swinger websites are there because they are NOT looking for a LTR.The ones I am talking about are the people who specifically say they are looking for someone to form a long-term relationship with...I never even thought twice about the people who look for FWB type situations or single guys/woman who want to find another solo person to go to parties and such with.
I've never been on POF, but OKC lets you choose "looking for" casual sex, long-term or short-term relationships, new friends, and more.