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All us guys can get out sometimes is 'Hey.' We're just trying. Then she immediately becomes unique." —Matthew Hussey"So many women go into a date thinking, 'What do I think of this person? You start picking him apart, like, 'I don't like his shoes,' or, 'He's nice but I wish he had more hair.' But a friend of mine actually gave the best advice about this.Instead of focusing on what you think of your date superficially, focus on 'How does he or she make me feel? Does she make me feel like the best version of myself?Generally people only tend to do this when they're in a stable relationship anyway and aren't afraid their other half will faint at the sight of their imperfect wobbly bits.
It's hard to change and then stick to it but this book make sense. I'm a power house in the board room and Patience is NOT one of my virtues but this book is helping me work on it.
2014 might be the year you have decided to find a partner. So to save you some time I have recently been immersing myself in the world of self-help and dating manuals, (let's say it was for "research") to decipher their key points, their plan of action.
If you were considering buying one to help you in your search for Mr or Mrs Right let me help you out by examining some of the most popular.
Silly me of course though, this is the digital generation, send him as many mp3s and Youtube videos as you like. Social media is meant to be 'live', of the minute, and if I have a really good cat video to share I want to share it now!
That's the main problem with The Rules and The New Rules, not much of a grip on reality.
"A lot of people — men and women — expect relationships to happen to them. You've got to work for it, just like you put the work in to advance in your career. Don't be easy, but in the first five seconds, be easy." —Matthew Hussey"Listen, the city is soul crushing. When they like somebody, standards tend to go out the window. The thing that actually makes a guy settle down is when a woman comes along who has a different set of standards than the other women he's met.