Dating advice too nice
And that principle is this: a woman develops attraction, romantic and sexual interest and love for a man not as much because of how he treats her but because of How you treat a woman and how you make her feel when she is around you is of course important, but that’s only one, less significant part of the equation.
In other words, being too nice, too sweet, accommodating, kind and generous with a woman alone, without the other elements of being an man, is not going to make her more attracted to him.
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While I agree that guys who are too nice with women will most often lose a woman’s interest very quickly, I am also not a big fan of this whole idea of being a “challenge” with women like some sources of dating advice suggest you should follow.
This is because I truly believe that when you understand the more fundamental principle of what makes men attractive to women, you won’t have to worry about being on purpose more difficult that you really are.Someone (or something) else is in control of you, the situation, and its outcome.Men in this situation appear to be anything but confident, strong and exciting.He just doesn’t turn me on.” Sadly, I hear it all the time. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you.And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. Please understand that I am not suggesting that you mistreat women or disrespect them in any way.
It works like this: Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation.