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it is not specifically a dating site, but no one objects if you contact people that look interesting. Some advice : first of all, no *censored* picture for your profile picture. second, if you contact someone that looks like you someone might want to talk to don't be an ass about it. Mistymouse ( my nym on either site) I have had 0 luck with Collarspace and Fetlife.
be polite, and friendly, like you would be if you were to meet someone at a party. They make me hate myself more than anything, no one ever messages you.
Definitely join both fetlife and collarme but keep expectations in check. It does not have a search function that works for dating.
Collarme has relatively few women and a majority of those are pro dommes. However, you can join groups with a local focus and groups focused on kinks that interest you.
Once you pay, none of those people actually reply to any effort you make to contact them. In other words, 100% fake plants that the site employs to make people believe it is an active and successful site.
Worst of all, claims to be a BDSM site, and yet if you are a submissive looking for a dominant the majority of people they "match" you to are also submissives who are looking for dominant partners.
Some I can recommend are those run by Dark Odyssey and Frolicon.I made an account for "perversions.com" because some bogus review site said it's good for BDSM people, then it turns out to actually be a website called eroticads.com, which I searched and had several bogus reviews, then I found actual user reviews that verified everything is bogus.ANYWAY, I can find normal women offline easy, but where do I find women into BDSM or fetish-related stuff?Starting with pros can gain you credibility; most dommes don't want to waste time on total newbies.But a male submissive has to network relentlessly to get free play and/or find a relationship. To be completely honest, dommes are spoled and a male submissive with little money has little chance with them.
if you are a submissive male, your first experiences will almost certainly be with professionals.